MY BLOG HAS MOVED...

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bye for now

well, it is obvious that me and this blog have parted ways... i am not going to delete it and maybe some day i will come back and blog some more. right now, i have a thesis to write, a class to make up and teach, a sermon to write every sunday and another exam that is two parts to get ready for AFTER i do all of that... well except the sermon part, that never ends. see you around.

this is my life, life as josh...

blessings.

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friday's feast

Appetizer
When was the last time you were surprised?

um...last weekend while enjoying some ice cream with the family at an outdoor eatery, a BIG truck pulled in and i watched/heard it hit the back bumper of our car. luckily, not damaged too bad, and none of us were sitting in it.

Soup
Fill in the blanks: My eyes are GREEN, but I wish they were BLUE.

Salad
If you were a Beanie Baby, what would you look like and what would your name be?

i would not look like a beanie baby, i don't like them so maybe i would be a anti-beany baby baby.

Main Course
Name two things you consistently do that you consider to be healthy habits.

i try not to drink more than 3 cups of coffee a day and i try to smoke my pipe only 5 times a day! (i am not a very healthy person... sorry)

Dessert
What brand of toothpaste are you using these days? Do you like it? Why or why not?

colgate this week. i just realized this questions has been asked before and previously, i was using the lemon ice crest. as you can tell, my wife likes to shop around as long as it doesn't involve blue gel.

scouts and sign language

well, since i have been so lazy posting these last few weeks i thought i would take some time to let you know about a couple of things that has taken place since then. my son and i joined the cub scouts (well. my son joined and since i am his dad then in effect i have "joined" also). he is in 1st grade, so he is a Tiger Cub. at our first "real" meeting we found out what den we were in and who our den leader was. we found out that we are in den #12, cool! after all of the den's had gone back to there rooms to meet our group and another group were just sitting there waiting on instructions. one of the "higher ups" in the cub scout organization came over and said, "the reason you guys did not go back is because you do not have a leader... we had LOTS of boys sign up for scouts but not enough leaders." so, she said that we could take turns being leaders for one month if nobody wanted/could be the den leader all the time. i looked at all of the guys there and i said, "hey, let's take turns being a leader and then none of us have to do this but a couple month's out of the year!" well, that was the wrong thing to do, because i spoke up and took the initiative to get this party started, then all of the men there looked at me for leadership. i did not want to be a leader, my son had asked me twice to be the den leader and i told him that i couldn't. after 30 minutes of all of us sitting there looking stupid and everybody saying, "i can't be the leader", i finally get tired of everybody not having any balls and volunteering. so, i say, "i will be the den leader" and the rest is history. after getting to know some of the cubs in my den, i find out that one of them has a hearing impairment. well, about a month ago i had started trying to teach myself some sign language just because i have always wanted to learn it. at first i am excited because that means i might have somebody practice my sign language on and then the mother tells me that they don't use sign language. she says that his speech teacher uses it, but at home they don't use it. at home he lip reads and can hear a little out of one ear. i have to confess that it kind of pisses me off that this family doesn't use ASL with him at home. basically he has to lip read and they have to talk really loud. as a result of this hearing impairment he is having to repeat the first grade. knowing this made me even more upset that the parents haven't taken the time to learn/use sign language. i feel sorry for this boy, i hate that he is suffering because of the laziness of his parents. my heart hurts for him. self-teaching myself sign language has been quite successful! i already known the entire alphabet, i can sign the "happy birthday song", i know about 50 different signs and several phrases. i found a great dvd from netflix that we rented and there are more on our list that will come as we return the others. i don't know if it is becuase i am a very visual person, but i am finding sign easy to learn. i tried teaching myself spanish for many years and never made this kind of progress even though i spent more time trying to learn spanish. so, now i am a den leader in the cub scouts and so far i have really enjoyed it... mostly because i get to spend time with my son. he loves spending time with me and thanks to my wife the meeting have been a snap (because she prepares the meeting for me and all i have to do is show up and lead it). she is wonderful. wish me luck with my ASL learning and if you know of a good way to self teach let me know. if you know of some good sign language web-sites let me know that also.

friday's feast

Appetizer
What is your favorite type of art?

anything that is kind of modern... i am not a huge fan of classic art... if that is the term for it.

Soup
When was the last time you got a free lunch (or breakfast or dinner)? Who paid for it?

when i went to visit a parishioner in the hospital for surgery... his wife paid for my dinner when her and i went and had dinner in the cafeteria while he got some rest... it was a veggie burger and french fries... it was good.

Salad
On a scale of 1-10 with 10 being highest, how emotional are you?

most of the time about a 9.5

Main Course
Approximately how long do you spend each day responding to emails?

well... i would say about 30 minutes.

Dessert
To what temperature do you usually set your home’s thermostat?

i like my office to be on about 72-74... at home my wife doesn't like it that cool, so it is warmer at home.

friday's feast

Appetizer
When was the last time you visited a hospital?

around august 8th, see this post for commentary about visiting the hospital (and other stuff).

Soup
On a scale of 1 to 10 with 10 being highest, how ambitious are you?

only about a 5, only more if i really, really, really, really want it.

Salad
Make a sentence using the letters of a body part. (Example: (mouth) My other ukelele tings healthily.)

eat alaskan roaches!

Main Course
If you were to start a club, what would the subject matter be, and what would you name it?

hmmmmm... the club would be a philosophy/theology club and we would talk about theology and ponder the deeper meanings of life. i would call it TAWB (Think About What you Believe). i know it's corny, but i am kind of corny.

Dessert
What color is the carpet/flooring in your home?

greyish light bluish.

i'm still here, here, here, here... (*echoing sound here*)

please don't give up on this blog and me. i know that i haven't posted anything for about 30 days, but things have been hectic. sermon writing has been a little difficult lately and i have been struggling with my prayer life (keeping it consistent). i also have had a lot of stuff that has come up at the church at the spur of the moment that has taken time away from sermon/bible study (people needing money for bills, counseling, etc...). i will write very, very soon about some stuff that is going on. talk to you all soon.

friday's feast

Appetizer
Who is the easiest person for you to talk to?

well, if you make me stick to a human being it would be my wife. if you don't limit it to that i would say it was God.

Soup

If you could live in any ancient city during the height of the quality of its society and culture, which one would you choose?

it would have to be spain.

Salad
What is the most exciting event you’ve ever witnessed?

the birth of both of our children.

Main Course
If you were a celebrity, what would you do for a publicity stunt?

i would shave my head and fast to raise money to help feed the people in the world who go hungry every day.

Dessert
What do you consider the ideal age to have a first child?

ideal age... to me it is more about how long to be married before you have kids. i would say that you need to be married at least 5 years before having kids. that way you can travel and do stuff that you can't do after you have kids.

friday's feast 05

Appetizer
Say there’s a book written about your life. Who would you want to narrate the audio version?

robert duvall... just because i think he is a great actor (and i like his voice)! also, because my favorite movie is lonesome dove. my second choice would be tommy lee jones... i like his voice and i like his a acting.

Soup
Take the letters from your favorite kind of nut and write a sentence. (Example: Perhaps every avenue needs understanding today.)

alligators like mascara on new days!

Salad
If you could go back in time and spend one week in another decade, which decade would you choose?

it would be right after adam and eve got kicked out of the garden, so i could ask them "what were you thinking!?!?!?!" ... my second choice would be back in the wild west, except i would be just a simple rancher/farmer.

Main Course
Name a song that brings back memories for you.

"time after time" by cyndi lauper. one of my first "girlfriends" (her name was rhonda) when i was in junior high said this was our song... i don't like the song but i really, really, really liked her. it was one of those times when you really liked someone and by some miracle of fate she likes you too. it was strange though... we only saw each other at school and talked on the phone. i never got to kiss her and that always pissed me off.

Dessert
Do you prefer to wash your hands in cold water or warm water?

if i am hot and sweaty then i like cold water... if it is early in the morning or right before i go to bed i like to use warm water. cold refreshes, warm relaxes.

gay funeral cancelled

here is something interesting that happened recently. apparently there was a funeral going to be held at a texas church, but when it was made public that the man was gay, they cancelled the funeral the day before it was to happen and basically said that you can't have a funeral for a gay person in this church... rev. gary simmons (the pastor of the church) said:

"This decision was not based on hate, or discrimination, but upon principle and policy, We cannot glorify homosexuality as a lifestyle. The Bible does say it's wrong, You wouldn't go to someones house who doesn't smoke and smoke there." (here is the official statement from the church)

so, there are some links at the bottom of this post about this, BUT first i want to ask you a question:

"so, does that mean they wouldn't allow funerals for fat people in their church because gluttony is a sin and a sinful lifestyle and the Bible does say gluttony is wrong?"

oh, and is there a difference between a gay funeral and a straight funeral?

just asking.

what do you think? comment on your thoughts... i am curious.

links:

here is a link to a news story about the cancelled funeral and this is another link from another news source

here is a link that shows some of the family pictures that the church called "in-appropriate"
(i do agree that the "crotch" shot was in-appropriate for a funeral, but it was not a "gay" shot... the two men are brothers, not lovers)